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“When we think of the most common deadly
diseases we usually think of Aids, Cancer, Diabetes, Obesity or Heart Disease,
among others. We (Klemmer & Assoc.) say the most deadly, and the most
common disease is the need to be “right”. As this particular strain of needing to be right makes
everyone else wrong, it is both divisive and toxic to all relationships, from interpersonal
to international.”
- paraphrased from a Personal
Mastery Seminar, Klemmer and Associates
The world and how it operates can be a funny thing. And we’re
not talking funny as in ha-ha, either, but rather funny as in quirky, ironic
and sometimes very backwards in nature. The issues are most always influenced by
power, money and control and that is why organizations, especially when
political and/or religious in nature, rely on exclusion as a rallying cry despite what they may broadcast in
their PR and marketing mantras. You see, exclusion
makes organizations powerful, or so they think, because their members can
band and bond together over one ideology or another, in essence issuing a war
with those who believe otherwise.
This narrow focused ‘oneness’ amongst group members causes
every form of division, from verbal spats all the way up to violent wars. And
it’s not just organizations and countries that are afflicted. There is a saying
that you can either be right or be married (or in a successful relationship).
In a word, the take away is that the Ego-centric need to be “right” destroys
every association from individual relationships to global allegiances.
A Positive for the Fashion Industry
We have on occasion taken pot shots at various members of
the fashion industry for some of the heinous ways they tend to shape public
perception. This, especially when undermining the self-confidence and
self-esteem of women with ads and promotions touting unreasonable and
unattainable physical expectations in regards to weight and appearance. And in
our defense, we’ve even found a random occasion or two to applaud those in the
fashion business who seem to buck those destructive industry trends (plus size
models and real life mannequins, to name a few).
We at UP Beauty
are all about INCLUSION, pure and simple. Inclusion, of course being the polar opposite
of exclusion, as discussed earlier. Well, applaud-applaud, we have another
trend-bucking fashion company to celebrate. Enter the new Tiffany and Co’s ad campaign for their time-honored, classic
engagement rings. Only this particular marketing movement features two gay men,
who by the way are not models, but real life partners. Who knew there were
little boys who dreamed of getting a Tiffany blue box from their partner after
popping the big question? Of course we are teasing, and so enthralled with Tiffany and Co. for taking a stand and
voting, as we do, for inclusion!
Look Better, Feel Better, Live
Better
As thinking humans, we need to be
careful to evaluate the nonsensical rhetoric that gets passed on to us under
the guise of sensible information. Give everything you hear that has power over
you the intuition test (in other words, the ‘b.s.’ test). Do not be swayed by
repetitive messages that don’t personally resonate. Pick apart the drivel that
gets projected your way and tap into your values, morals and your spiritual
side.
When we slow down enough to
contemplate life and it’s choices for ourselves, the path and focus of our
lives can then reflect the true us, the kind, compassionate, logical and clear
thinking individual that can’t be swayed against his or her will. This person
will likely see the value in loving all people as equals, or in other words, inclusion at its very best.
“There are no nations. There is only humanity. And if we
don't come to understand that soon, there will be no nations because there will be no humanity."
-- Isaac Asimov
-- Isaac Asimov
PS: There are different levels of inclusion, from
warmly embracing a philosophy or an ideal to just simply agreeing to disagree with it, minus the animosity or need to
convert. A softer, gentle stance is still a stance. J